TINDER! A world where you right swipe and you get a match. You are happy, you chat, meet, date. But is tinder dating safe? Is the guy you right swiped is a married man? External Marital affairs is a very easy task on social apps as these can’t reveal a person’s relationship status until s/he isn’t ready to post it.
A research claims that 30% of Tinder users surveyed are married, while another 12% are in a relationship. 54% classed themselves as single, while 3% were divorced or widowed.
The research also shows, unsurprisingly, that Tinder’s users are a relatively young crowd, with 38% aged between 16 and 24, and 45% between 25 and 34.
13% are aged 35-44, 3% are 45-54 and 1% are 55-64 – although if reports in late 2014 that Tinder had 50 million active users were true, that would still indicate half a million people in that oldest age category surveyed.
And the painful truth behind your “Tinder Relationship” can be that your partner might be married.
While cheating , and those who cheat on their romantic partners , is often sensationalized in the media. Dating a married man is also unfair to you because you run the risk of becoming emotionally vulnerable with a man who is unable to commit to you. Knowing the signs of whether or not you’re dating a married man can help protect your heart and sanity.
Here are some signs your partner will possess if she will be married
- No Invitations to His House
A married man does not want you showing up at his home. Take notice if the man you’re dating never invites you over and make excuses if you invite yourself. Become suspicious if he seems reluctant to disclose his address.
- Date Locations
A married man risks getting caught when he takes you out in public. Men who repeatedly choose remote locations or avoid high profile destinations, give rise to suspicion. Some married men may not want to go out at all, suggesting staying in and cuddling instead.
- Always Running Late
Men who always arrive late may have something to hide. A married man cannot tell his wife where he goes when he comes to see you, so he will often run late because he had trouble getting away from his wife. If the man you are dating constantly shows up late and makes excuses about why, he could be married.
- You Don’t Meet His Family
Meeting a boyfriend’s family marks the progression to seriousness in many relationships. If you date a man for a considerable length of time and do not get an invitation to meet his family, consider asking him why.
- No Home Phone Number
A married man cannot give you his home phone number because his wife or children may answer the phone. He will not risk you leaving a message on the house answering machine. A red flag goes up when a man gives you his cell phone number only.
- Weekends Alone
The weekend provides time for couples and families to relax and do things together. If the man you date becomes scarce on the weekends, he may be spending time with his wife and children. The same holds true for major Holidays.
- Lack of Public Affection
If your boyfriend becomes much more distant in public than when the two of you are alone, he could be afraid of recognition. A cheating man never knows when he will run into an in-law or his wife. Keeping his distance from you in public makes it less likely that people will see you as a couple.
- He Does Not Sleep Over
If your boyfriend finds excuses not to stay the night with you, be cautious. A married man would alert his wife to his suspicious behavior if he spent repeated nights away from home.